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The Book of Me, Written by You: Prompt 01 – Who Are You?

  1. I am a voracious reader
  2. I am an aunt
  3. I am a sister
  4. I am a genealogist
  5. I am a cost accountant
  6. I am a friend
  7. I am an animal lover
  8. I am an optimist
  9. I am a pessimist
  10. I am a criminology enthusiast
  11. I am a crocheter
  12. I am a knitter
  13. I am a mystery movie lover
  14. I am a romantic
  15. I am a cousin
  16. I am a family history researcher
  17. I am a blogger
  18. I am a cook
  19. I am a computer enthusiast
  20. I am a website designer
  21. I am a person
  22. I am a scrapbooker
  23. I am an amateur photographer
  24. I am an enthusiastic but not particularly successful gardener
  25. I am a crafter


The prompt for week 1 is a recognized psychology test

  1. Ask yourself 20 times “Who are you?”

Each time you should give yourself a different answer, and if you can easily go beyond 20 then that is fine too. The last time I did this (December 2012) I came up with 26. This is the sort of prompt that you can re do at various stages of your life, perhaps after some changes or at the start of the New Year.

This prompt is about how YOU see YOU.



The Book of Me, Written by You

By Julie Goucher 2012 – Anglers Rest Blog –


The Book of Me is a themed event enabling you to build a “Book of Me” over at least the coming year to share with your descendants, in reality this project can be as long
or as short as you want it to be.

So much of our time is researching our ancestors, but how much of the incidentals of our lives do we share, or know about our parents, grandparents, siblings and the
people that matter to us?

It is these incidental snippets that enable us to “flesh out” our ancestors and what more of a legacy could we present to our descendants or future researchers?

Over the coming weeks there will be a weekly prompt enabling you to share those details and perhaps include details of things that you know of your parents, Grandparents, siblings etc

This is not just about genealogy or family history. It is about a personal journey; a journey of rediscovery of yourself and perhaps your loved ones through your eyes.

52 Weeks of Personal History & Genealogy: Week #52 – Advice


My advice to future generations, including my niece and nephews, is to live each day as if it were your last! Not to be afraid to take chances but instead to embrace the challenges that life throws our way.

Life is a series of choices. Try to make each choice considering what you think will make you happy with the knowledge you have at the time and not spend time looking back rethinking each choice later. You can only do the best you can do and go on with your life. Don’t waste our precious time on earth with regrets and worry. I know this will come as shock to those who know me because they will know that I tend to worry about everything but I am trying to stop that and to follow my own advice! That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t reconsider things but don’t waste time on the regrets and rethinking. Make a choice to change things with the knowledge you have now and move on again!

I try to live my life with this prayer in mind each day:

Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference! That last part is often the hardest part – determining what can and cannot be changed but I ask each day for God’s guidance!

I also remember often my favorite quote:

And I, I took the road less traveled by … and that has made all the difference. Robert Frost

My life may not have taken the path I thought it would when I was a little girl but it has taken my life path. I try each day to thank the Lord for the blessings of my life and not waste time on the what ifs.. Because if I had chosen one of the what ifs then I wouldn’t have the blessings I now have! I may not know the reason’s for my life’s path but I know who chose the path for me and that there is a reason for that path. Someday I will know the answers when I meet the one who designs the paths.

And just a thought or two for any interested in genealogy research, as far as I know now, we aren’t closely related to any kings, queens, royalty, or other public or wealthy people. We apparently come from a long line of farmers, ministers, and ordinary people who live their lives in very ordinary ways: occasionally serving their country in the military, serving God in the church, and providing love, food, and shelter to their families.


Week #52 – Advice

Week 52. Advice. Do you have any advice for future generations who may be researching your family? For example, was there a name change or a significant relocation in your past? This is intended to be a very flexible question. Answer it any way you wish.

This challenge runs from Saturday, December 24, 2011 through Friday, December 30, 2011.


52 Weeks of Personal Genealogy & History by Amy Coffin is a series of weekly blogging prompts (one for each week of 2011) that invite genealogists and others to record memories and insights about their own lives for future descendants. You do not have to be a blogger to participate. If you do not have a genealogy blog, write down your memories on your computer, or simply record them on paper and keep them with your files.


52 Weeks of Personal History & Genealogy: Week #51 – Holiday Events


When I was a kid, we would go to one grandparents house for Christmas lunch and to the other for Christmas dinner. Then for many years it was just the five of us at Christmas dinner.

A little over ten years ago things began to change. My sister got married and had her first child. My brother met his wife and future daughter. Suddenly, Christmas changed for us. We now had little kids in the family again and the holiday joy of the little kids became a feature of our holidays once again. Now, I am an aunt to my niece and four nephews. From the preschooler to the teenager, our home is once again going to be full of children this Christmas.

There will be candy and toys and the love of our family to share the joyous Christmas season again!

Off to the Christmas Shopping!

Week #51 – Holiday Events

Week 51. Holiday Events. Where did your family gather for the Christmas or Hanukkah as a child? Which family members and friends attended the event?

This challenge runs from Saturday, December 17, 2011 through Friday, December 23, 2011.


52 Weeks of Personal Genealogy & History by Amy Coffin is a series of weekly blogging prompts (one for each week of 2011) that invite genealogists and others to record memories and insights about their own lives for future descendants. You do not have to be a blogger to participate. If you do not have a genealogy blog, write down your memories on your computer, or simply record them on paper and keep them with your files.


52 Weeks of Personal History & Genealogy: Week #50 – Holiday Gifts


The most memorable Christmas gift that I received was a Christmas morning when I was in grade school about 4th grade or so. My parents bought my sister and I little rocking chairs. When we went into the living room, there sat the rocking chairs with big stuffed monkeys sitting on them! I loved that little chair.

I also remember that another Christmas a couple of years later, my brother, sister, and I got an Atari 2600 for Christmas. I became the family pacman champion on that Atari.

One of the gifts I remember most though is a gift that we helped my dad give to Mom. He got her a bunch of earrings and we put them in a really big box and taped the earrings down so that they wouldn’t make any noise when she shook the box! We kept that gift a secret until Christmas Morning.


Week #50 – Holiday Gifts

Week 50. Holiday Gifts. Describe any memorable Christmas or Hanukkah gifts you received as a child.

This challenge runs from Saturday, December 10, 2011 through Friday, December 16, 2011.


52 Weeks of Personal Genealogy & History by Amy Coffin is a series of weekly blogging prompts (one for each week of 2011) that invite genealogists and others to record memories and insights about their own lives for future descendants. You do not have to be a blogger to participate. If you do not have a genealogy blog, write down your memories on your computer, or simply record them on paper and keep them with your files.


52 Weeks of Personal History & Genealogy: Week #49 – Historical Events


There were many historical events that have occurred in my lifetime.

I was born in 1969. I don’t really remember and of the events of 1969 through the early 70s but they have played an important part in my life. I have seen many of these events replayed many times through television coverage. TV has made these events seem as if I was there even though they actually occurred before my birth or while I was a very small child.

John F Kennedy Assassination
Robert Kennedy Assassination
Martin Luther King Assassination
The Manson Family Murders
The First Man Landed on the Moon
Senator Edward Kennedy’s Chappaquiddick Car Accident and following Scandal

Computer Floppy Disks Introduced
Kent State Shootings
VCRs Introduced
MASH Premiers on TV
Watergate Scandal
US President Nixon Resigns
Microsoft Founded
Elvis Dies
Roots Miniseries appears on TV
Jonestown Massacre
Iran takes American Hostages
I remember Elvis dying. I have a distinct memory of watching his last concert on TV and then seeing the announcement by his father of his death. I don’t think that I really believed he was dead for a long time. It didn’t seem real that someone that famous should just die.

I remember the Roots miniseries on TV. I found it fascinating the Alfred Hailey could find out the identities of his ancestors. This might have been the first hints of my interest in genealogy. It seemed that he had put together the pieces of a puzzle to identify his ancestors and I have always enjoyed puzzles.

I remember the Jonestown Massacre as well. This event was scary to me. This was the first time that I realized that people could be convinced to go against their own beliefs to do something so totally insane. It was the first time that I realized that peoples minds could be deceived and manipulated to that extent. I remember thinking that if all those people could be convinced to do those things then how did I know that I wasn’t being manipulated like that!

I remember the hostages being held in Iran and the yellow ribbons appearing everywhere in support of them. I remember thinking that President Jimmy Carter wasn’t doing enough to get them back home!

John Lennon Assassinated
PacMan Released
Ted Turner Establishes CNN
Royal Wedding: Charles and Diana
Reagan Assassination Attempt
Aids Identified
Personal Computers Introduced
Challenger Space Shuttle Explodes
DNA first used to convict killers
Berlin Wall Falls
The 1980s was the first decade that I can really remember completely. I remember the coverage of John Lennon’s assassination. I wasn’t a Beatles fan really but I knew who John Lennon was.

PacMan was my favorite video game as a kid and I was the family PacMan champion on our Atari Game system.

I don’t really remember clearly the day that CNN was established but I do remember that during this time news started being available all the time! The news from around the world and across the country was now available 24 hours a day. Now when there was a major event, you could turn to CNN and watch live coverage of the event!

I remember distinctly the Royal Wedding of Charles and Diana. I got up in the middle of the night and watched the wedding coverage. I have always been a romantic and bought into the whole Fairy Tale Wedding of the Century.

I remember the assassination attempt on President Reagan. I saw it over and over on TV. I was very concerned that President Reagan was going to die and I was relieved when he recovered. It seemed strange that a mentally ill man could almost end the life of a President. It became a reality to me that nobody is completely safe in this world!

I don’t really remember the personal computer being specifically released! But the release of the personal computer has completely changed my life! I spend most of every day using a computer. My cell phone now has more computing power than the “Mainframe” computers that were in the University when I was high school!

I remember seeing the space shuttle disaster on TV. I was in high school at the time of the disaster. I think that I must have seen it on the news after the actual event. I always felt that it was horrible that so many of the family members were there to see the launch and instead witnessed the untimely death of their family member. With the teacher on the shuttle, millions of small school children were watching the launch and saw the explosion. That must have been completely terrifying to them!

I remember watching the fall of the Berlin Wall on TV. I think that I saw it live! It was a joyous day.

Waco Texas Raid
Internet comes of age
1993 Bombing of World Trade Center
OJ Simpson Trial
Oklahoma Center Bombing
Two Royal Divorces
Unabomber Arrested
Princess Diana Dies
President Clinton Impeached
Fear of the Y2K bug
John F Kennedy Jr Killed in Plane Crash
Killing Spree at Columbine High School
The Waco Texas Raid played out on the 24 hour cable news channels for days and ended with children dying in that horrible fire!

The internet has changed my life in many ways. First, as a genealogist I can now access copies of records in seconds that would have take weeks (and a significant amount of money) to get before the internet. Also, now news is available in seconds instead of days!

I vaguely remember the 1993 World Trade Center bombing but I don’t remember it really affecting my daily life. It was a sad event that played out on TV but I didn’t know anybody really involved in the tragedy and so life just went on.

The OJ Simpson trial was a major event for me. I loved to watch Court TV with the live coverage of Trials. I was in college when the OJ Simpson trial occurred and I would come home every day from classes and watch the trial coverage. The trial lasted for almost 9 months! Johnny Cochran was a sight to see in that courtroom. Whatever you believe about the verdict in the trial, if you watched the trial you would have to acknowledge that he was a great lawyer who ran that courtroom!

I vividly remember the Oklahoma Bombing. I saw the immediate aftermath of the explosion on the TV. I was shocked that someone could bomb a building like that in the middle of our country. I remember thinking that it must a terrorist attack like the 1993 World Trade Center bombing. Then, it was discovered that it was a US Citizen who had killed all those people. This was the first time that it really felt like anyone could be killed just going about their daily lives.

I remember being saddened by the divorces in the Royal Family. Not because they were royalty but because they were people who were so obviously unhappy!

The unabomber being arrested was a strange time for me. He was bombing technology related people and places. I had seen the story of the unabomber on Unsolved Mysteries and I remember looking at packages suspiciously after watching that show. It was a relief when he was arrested. I watched much of the trial coverage and feeling sorry for the brother who had made the awful decision to turn in his brother. That would have been a horrible decision to make!

The death of Princess Diana was a horribly sad time for me. The end of an era. The end of a fairy tale. As long as she was alive the story might have ended much differently. I am a romantic and I always thought that maybe Charles and Diana would get back together but that wasn’t to be. The funeral was sad.

Then, President Clinton was impeached. This was also a sad time for me. I was disappointed in someone whom I respected. His behavior was inexcusable and I felt incredibly sorry for Hillary Clinton at her public humiliation at the hands of her husband.

I vividly remember the fear of the Y2K bug. It was feared that since early computers were programmed with only two digit years and that many of the calculations for activities were calculated as if 00 was 1900 instead of 2000 that many computers would not work correctly! There were fears of massive power outages, plane crashes, and massive business failures and problems. Not discussed as much but a present fear was the fear of terrorist attacks on the New Year’s celebrations that year.

The John F Kennedy Jr death in a plane crash was sad. He was a young man with so much potential and then he was dead! It also ended the dreams of Camelot and another Kennedy Presidency! We will never know if he would have become a president but the potential was there.

The Columbine Killing Spree was the beginning of the mass shootings in public places. This was the first one that made the news across the country and the beginning of the school shootings. Now, even children weren’t safe just being in school. This event more than any other removed our feeling of security as we go about our daily lives. We now know that anyone can die at any time.

9/11 Attacks
Iraq War
Columbia Space Shuttle Disaster
IPod, IPhone, and IPad are released
Hurricane Katrina
Facebook and Twitter are launched
US Recession
Royal Wedding: William and Kate

The 2000′s have seen amazing changes! There was the beginning of the decade with the 9/11 attacks. I woke up that morning and my mother and sister were watching the news. The first plane had crashed into the tower. A few minutes later we saw the second plane go into the second tower! It wasn’t just a tragedy but almost certainly an attack on our country! I felt uncertain about our future! The planes were grounded and the president was in the air in Air Force One! I spent the day watching the news and wondering about the future of our country and our safety. The following days made our country more united! We decided that we wouldn’t allow the terrorist to make us change our way of life! We went back to our lives and didn’t allow our fears to change our lives.

There was the Iraq war beginning with such a feeling of patriotism and that it was necessary. Now there are questions about the validity of the reasons we went to war. Was it really necessary? Whatever the answer to that question, our troops deserve our thanks for our freedom and our respect for their service to our country.

The Columbia space shuttle explodes on reentry! Another tragedy for our country.

The horrible images of those people trapped after Hurrican Katrina are burned into my mind. The response to that disaster was inexcusable!

The killing of Osama Bin Laden was a victory for our country. He was the mastermind of the 9/11 attacks and responsible for many deaths in our country.

Facebook and Twitter have made many changes to our lives. I have both a facebook and a twitter account and I update to them periodically. Mostly I use them to stay in touch with my extended family and to share my genealogy findings.

The recession has made a major difference in all our lives. Gas went from about a $1 in the early 2000s to almost $4 a gallon and all of the other costs have increased while many people are unemployed or at the very least haven’t had their incomes increase at the same pace as the prices have increased.

The Royal Wedding of William and Kate was an event that brought back the fairy tale feeling of his mother’s marriage in the 1980s. But with this wedding you don’t get the feeling that she is going into the wedding without being aware of the problems she will face. Maybe this will be wedding that lasts.


Week #49 – Historical Events

Week 49. Historical Events. Describe a memorable national historical event from your childhood. How old were you and how did you process this event? How did it affect your family?

This challenge runs from Saturday, December 3, 2011 through Friday, December 9, 2011.


52 Weeks of Personal Genealogy & History by Amy Coffin is a series of weekly blogging prompts (one for each week of 2011) that invite genealogists and others to record memories and insights about their own lives for future descendants. You do not have to be a blogger to participate. If you do not have a genealogy blog, write down your memories on your computer, or simply record them on paper and keep them with your files.